Hi everyone. I'm having marriage issues as well and I want to thank everyone who has posted with their issues and all the brutally honest responses.
It seems that everyone who is considering divorce has good reason to do so and is asking for support and confirmation.
My husband is an alcoholic and I will not live with it. The question I have is when is it too much? When does it merit divorce? How much will I put up with? The truth is, none of it. I will tolerate none of it. I do not want to spend my life worried about his drinking, worried about when its going to happen again. But I'm terrified of divorce, of being by myself, of starting over and of lossing my chance to have children (I'm 33 and husband is infertile, so idk how much i should take this into account).