So this isn't really about a family member, but a friend who's wedding I am in. My friend is getting married in a few months and I agreed to be in her wedding. We aren't that close but we do talk every few weeks to catch up since we are both busy. Her wedding is my 4th wedding I've been in in the last year (including mine). I am so over weddings and am ready to be done with this one. When I said that we talk every few weeks to catch up, it's only to catch up on her wedding. She has discussed every detail and has asked me to help choose cake flavor, dress style, even their first dance song choice. I don't mind being a good friend and chatting but it has been constant. I feel bad complaining but I went through this just over a year ago with my wedding, was my cousins MOH in her wedding, was in my bf wedding, and am just so over the planning. My friend comes to me for advice and wedding help because she and her sister (her MOH) are always at each others throats. So my friend keeps calling/texting me periodically about her shower to make sure it's been planned, who all she wants there, what she wants for a Bachelorette Party, and how much she can't stand her sister. I'm sorry that she and her sister fight but I'm not her MOH and have no desire to help her in all of these details. I want to be a good friend but it's just getting to the point where I'm all "wedding'd out" at this point and am just ready for some relaxation, money savings (these weddings are expensive), and just time to focus on my life, job, and saving for a house. I love my friend and am truly happy for her and her wedding. I know some of my annoyance may come at just being tired of being in weddings in general, but everytime she calls or texts me I know it's just going to be to tell me about another wedding detail or ask me advice on her issues.