DH is in the final interview stages for a job out of state. The process has been long and drawn out (over 2 months). They knew we were on a tight time constraint when he applied, and the original plan was to have the person start by 7/2, then changed to 7/16. Our lease is up 7/15 so if we are not leaving we need to make living arrangements immediately. (We will stay with my parents if we move).
They called last Wed to set up a "follow up" for either Fri or Mon (yesterday). She got his availability and said she would e-mail him to set it up, but never did. He e-mailed her on Friday to check in and she never responded. He is going to try calling if he doesn't hear from her today. He really doesn't want to be a jerk and go over her head, but we need to have an answer by the end of this week or he is going to have to pull out of the running.
So here's my questions: 1. Would you go over her head if need be? 2. Would you tell them you need an answer by the end of the week? 3. If so, how would you go about doing that?