I'm sure we've all had issues (maybe not all) with out MILs. I've always had a problem with her, even when husband and I were engaged. She always did things that she knew made me feel uncomfortable, then played the victim when I expressed my concern. So my husband, then fiance, always took her side because she claimed I was being insensitive to her needs. And now that we are married this is continuing. She told my husband that she wants us to go to her church tonight, and then to dinner afterwards. I have no problem with the dinner. However, her church is only in Spanish, and I do not speak Spanish, so it makes me a little uncomfortable to have to sit there for 2 hours and not understand a single word. I expressed my concern to my husband, and he thinks I'm being insensitive to her 'needs.' How do I deal with this? I feel like yelling at her and telling her to cut the cord, and at the same time, I feel like yelling at my husband because I feel like I am constantly being taken as the bad guy because he always sides with her.