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Bondage

How many of you are into it and if so how did it come up in the relationship? I am wanting to spice it up a bit in the bedroom and I think I will have to ease DH into it as he is kinda shy about these things lol 
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Re: Bondage

  • He asked me if I had something I never tried before so I flat out told him to tie me up.

     It worked.

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  • Pretty much like PP, we talked about fantasies and I told him that I thought it'd be hot if I tied him up.  Done and done.

    If you need to ease him in. Start with just holding down his arms while you're ontop, next time try loosely grabbing a tie or scarf and tying it around his hands...ask if he liked it and see if he wants to try some other things... 

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  • For the love of God if you're going to seriously start tying each other up at least do a little research first to learn about what areas to avoid so as not to cause nerve damage, what kind of knots are best/easy to untie if anything goes wrong, and safety precautions like keeping medical scissors handy and checking extremities occasionally for feeling/warmth/reaction.

    Google Two Knotty boys, they have books and videos and sh!t you can learn from.

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  • Same as everyone else, we talked about fantasies and realized that we both wanted to play with bondage. 

    Do make sure that you're careful about setting boundaries, and don't feel pressured to do some crazy 3 hour scene.  Maybe just start with some handcuffs.

  • We don't tie each other up, but he does let me spank him when he is naughty. I find a wooden spoon works best. it's cheap, easy, and always available.
  • We don't really tie each other up but we're more into S&m or Dom/sub play. My DH wasn't into these things early in our relationship but the more we wanted to spice things up the more control he took in the bedroom. HOT!

    Whatever kind of play you end up doing I would easy into it. We started using the bondage tape at first, it worked pretty well as you don't have to be skillled at knots but it can get too tight quick. It's fairly cheap too. Having some scissors on hand is a good idea.

    I would also have a safe word, nothing ridiculous that you won't remember, maybe each other's full names or " Lawsuit". Something that will make yo automatically stop the play.

    Have fun! 

  • image SweetCuppinCakes:

    For the love of God if you're going to seriously start tying each other up at least do a little research first to learn about what areas to avoid so as not to cause nerve damage, what kind of knots are best/easy to untie if anything goes wrong, and safety precautions like keeping medical scissors handy and checking extremities occasionally for feeling/warmth/reaction.

    Google Two Knotty boys, they have books and videos and sh!t you can learn from.

    This. Like another poster said, have an in-depth discussion about it. Bondage has a lot of facets to it. You can be into rope play(look up Shibari!), you can be into D/s or M/s play, all kinds of things. It isn't all S and M, stuff. My boyfriend, for instance, hates causing pain. To any one or anything. However, he does Dom. Just look into some resources online, talk about some fantasies, set limits, and maybe test some limits SAFELY. There are beginner sets at a Hustler near you and online! 

     

    As for how I got into it? Well, I've always liked the idea of submitting and my current boyfriend has always Dom'd in his previous relationships that have been comfortable with this sort of thing. It certainly isn't for everyone and you MUST trust your partner to A) know what he/she/it is doing and B) that they'll listen to you if/when you have to let them know to stop.  

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    :::shaking head::: Why on earth would I want to do anything to limit or prevent my partner from pleasuring me, or me him?

    Sex is very hands-on for me. I'd like it if we could both sprout extra hands to facilitate MORE touching.

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  • I would be interested in it, but when DH tried to talk to me a while about it I clammed up since I didn't know what it entailed.

    I think if one is truly serious about exploring thing, you need to do your research.  

    I love the feeling of being dominated.  Why?  I have no idea...I'm a control freak/Type A as I get older, who hates even being in the passenger seat of the car.

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