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Husband Scared of Sex Toys???

So one day my husband and I went to a sex toy shop to check out some items that would spice up our sex life. He was very excited about it and we got a sex pillow, a whip, and one dildo...we don't know anything about this stuff but just wanted to try something new. Well I noticed that when he tried using the dildo on me the first time he seemed uncomfortable. I asked him about it and he said he just doesn't feel comfortable with the idea of using the vibrator on me. He also seemed unclear on how we were suppose to use the sex pillow even though I showed him how.... is this weird??..or do most husbands feel like this at first??

Re: Husband Scared of Sex Toys???

  • I think this is natural for a guy. Sometimes we as women may be more open to bring a little spice but they may just take some time. Maybe you can do some research on how to use the items and then once you are comfortable  you can help him be able to use the bedroom treats!
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  • Is the dildo a lot bigger than his, eh, package? It may make a difference. I know MANY of my girlfriends significant others have a hard time with using dildos or sex toys on their wives/gf's if they are bigger than they are. It can sometimes make them feel inadequate or insecure that their wives are getting more pleasure from something else than from them. I think guys sometimes are a little more sensitive about these things than we realize. 

    Also, take it slow with him with the toys. Maybe use it on yourself while he watches? Or start with a small vibrator for your clitoris while he preforms oral on you or while you have sex.

     My husband was a little apprehensive at first when we started to introduce sex toys. Once he felt like he had mastered how to use them and knew exactly what make me feel good, he loves it. Good luck and have fun!  

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     My husband was a little apprehensive at first when we started to introduce sex toys. Once he felt like he had mastered how to use them and knew exactly what make me feel good, he loves it. Good luck and have fun!  

    This, dh was a little weird when I first bought a few vibrators at a pure romance party, but once he started using them on me, he got into them and actually wants to use them more than I do.  We use them as foreplay.  

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  • it's probably a good thing you didn't get anal beads. for real. a pillow, a whip, and dildo are all fine and dandy, but perhaps you should have started smaller with a blindfold, a clit tickler, and a wooden spoon. He could play the naughty chef who spanks you when you get an ingredient wrong and tickles you when you get it right in a recipe.

  • May be before you couples go to buy sex toys you should tell you husband that what sex toys use for?How to use it !When you see him are very interest in it,them you can take him to buy sex toys!Other ways may be you husband don't like it,it's waste money to buy it!
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