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    I'm not sure why you guys are being so mean?  I came here for help.  That's what these boards are for.  I think you are all just bitter and don't understand what we are going thru.  Please stop making fun of me and offer some constructive criticism!  I wouldn't be mean to a stranger just to be mean.  Why are you guys doing that?
    Eh don't worry their hitting me too... the post "don't judge me" yeah that was about one of my post, just brush it off.

    Thanks.  What is wrong with these people?  I'm just asking for advice.  And I am so sad about the situation, and nobody seems to care.   

    I'm laughing a bit, you do know i was the first one to comment on your post right?
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    I'm not sure why you guys are being so mean?  I came here for help.  That's what these boards are for.  I think you are all just bitter and don't understand what we are going thru.  Please stop making fun of me and offer some constructive criticism!  I wouldn't be mean to a stranger just to be mean.  Why are you guys doing that?
    Eh don't worry their hitting me too... the post "don't judge me" yeah that was about one of my post, just brush it off.

    Thanks.  What is wrong with these people?  I'm just asking for advice.  And I am so sad about the situation, and nobody seems to care.   

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    I'm not sure why you guys are being so mean?  I came here for help.  That's what these boards are for.  I think you are all just bitter and don't understand what we are going thru.  Please stop making fun of me and offer some constructive criticism!  I wouldn't be mean to a stranger just to be mean.  Why are you guys doing that?
    Eh don't worry their hitting me too... the post "don't judge me" yeah that was about one of my post, just brush it off.

    Thanks.  What is wrong with these people?  I'm just asking for advice.  And I am so sad about the situation, and nobody seems to care.   

    I'm laughing a bit, you do know i was the first one to comment on your post right?

    Yeah but I thought you were different.  Guess not.  Maybe I shouldn't even post here.  You guys are all very mean. 

    We put the "her" in "hero"
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    I'm not sure why you guys are being so mean?  I came here for help.  That's what these boards are for.  I think you are all just bitter and don't understand what we are going thru.  Please stop making fun of me and offer some constructive criticism!  I wouldn't be mean to a stranger just to be mean.  Why are you guys doing that?
    Eh don't worry their hitting me too... the post "don't judge me" yeah that was about one of my post, just brush it off.

    Thanks.  What is wrong with these people?  I'm just asking for advice.  And I am so sad about the situation, and nobody seems to care.   

    I'm laughing a bit, you do know i was the first one to comment on your post right?

    Yeah but I thought you were different.  Guess not.  Maybe I shouldn't even post here.  You guys are all very mean. 

    (i'm not a regular poster here) i was just saying because that is why everybody is being so mean to you. Yes you came here for advise but its was like something out of a high school drama. The moment your man is gone and you don't get a letter/phone call every day you freak out and think it has to be cheating, instead of logicly thinking "maybe he is busy" and talking it over with him. (not trying to sound mean)
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    I'm not sure why you guys are being so mean?  I came here for help.  That's what these boards are for.  I think you are all just bitter and don't understand what we are going thru.  Please stop making fun of me and offer some constructive criticism!  I wouldn't be mean to a stranger just to be mean.  Why are you guys doing that?
    Eh don't worry their hitting me too... the post "don't judge me" yeah that was about one of my post, just brush it off.

    Thanks.  What is wrong with these people?  I'm just asking for advice.  And I am so sad about the situation, and nobody seems to care.   

    I'm laughing a bit, you do know i was the first one to comment on your post right?

    Yeah but I thought you were different.  Guess not.  Maybe I shouldn't even post here.  You guys are all very mean. 

    (i'm not a regular poster here) i was just saying because that is why everybody is being so mean to you. Yes you came here for advise but its was like something out of a high school drama. The moment your man is gone and you don't get a letter/phone call every day you freak out and think it has to be cheating, instead of logicly thinking "maybe he is busy" and talking it over with him. (not trying to sound mean)

      But you still can't spell.  HTH

    Shot first, questions later.
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    I'm not sure why you guys are being so mean?  I came here for help.  That's what these boards are for.  I think you are all just bitter and don't understand what we are going thru.  Please stop making fun of me and offer some constructive criticism!  I wouldn't be mean to a stranger just to be mean.  Why are you guys doing that?
    Eh don't worry their hitting me too... the post "don't judge me" yeah that was about one of my post, just brush it off.

    Thanks.  What is wrong with these people?  I'm just asking for advice.  And I am so sad about the situation, and nobody seems to care.   

    I'm laughing a bit, you do know i was the first one to comment on your post right?

    Yeah but I thought you were different.  Guess not.  Maybe I shouldn't even post here.  You guys are all very mean. 

    (i'm not a regular poster here) i was just saying because that is why everybody is being so mean to you. Yes you came here for advise but its was like something out of a high school drama. The moment your man is gone and you don't get a letter/phone call every day you freak out and think it has to be cheating, instead of logicly thinking "maybe he is busy" and talking it over with him. (not trying to sound mean)

    How can I talk it over with him if I can't even talk to him?!  We are so distant because of the military!   

    We put the "her" in "hero"
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    I'm not sure why you guys are being so mean?  I came here for help.  That's what these boards are for.  I think you are all just bitter and don't understand what we are going thru.  Please stop making fun of me and offer some constructive criticism!  I wouldn't be mean to a stranger just to be mean.  Why are you guys doing that?
    Eh don't worry their hitting me too... the post "don't judge me" yeah that was about one of my post, just brush it off.

    Thanks.  What is wrong with these people?  I'm just asking for advice.  And I am so sad about the situation, and nobody seems to care.   

    I'm laughing a bit, you do know i was the first one to comment on your post right?

    Yeah but I thought you were different.  Guess not.  Maybe I shouldn't even post here.  You guys are all very mean. 

    (i'm not a regular poster here) i was just saying because that is why everybody is being so mean to you. Yes you came here for advise but its was like something out of a high school drama. The moment your man is gone and you don't get a letter/phone call every day you freak out and think it has to be cheating, instead of logicly thinking "maybe he is busy" and talking it over with him. (not trying to sound mean)

      But you still can't spell.  HTH

    Yeah, its one of my flaws... if only my internet browser had spell check, then i would be awesome!
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    I'm not sure why you guys are being so mean?  I came here for help.  That's what these boards are for.  I think you are all just bitter and don't understand what we are going thru.  Please stop making fun of me and offer some constructive criticism!  I wouldn't be mean to a stranger just to be mean.  Why are you guys doing that?
    Eh don't worry their hitting me too... the post "don't judge me" yeah that was about one of my post, just brush it off.

    Thanks.  What is wrong with these people?  I'm just asking for advice.  And I am so sad about the situation, and nobody seems to care.   

    I'm laughing a bit, you do know i was the first one to comment on your post right?

    Yeah but I thought you were different.  Guess not.  Maybe I shouldn't even post here.  You guys are all very mean. 

    (i'm not a regular poster here) i was just saying because that is why everybody is being so mean to you. Yes you came here for advise but its was like something out of a high school drama. The moment your man is gone and you don't get a letter/phone call every day you freak out and think it has to be cheating, instead of logicly thinking "maybe he is busy" and talking it over with him. (not trying to sound mean)

      But you still can't spell.  HTH

    Yeah, its one of my flaws... if only my internet browser had spell check, then i would be awesome!

     The beauty of it is that we all manage to spell everything correctly without spell check...hence the "you can't spell" comments.

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    I'm not sure why you guys are being so mean?  I came here for help.  That's what these boards are for.  I think you are all just bitter and don't understand what we are going thru.  Please stop making fun of me and offer some constructive criticism!  I wouldn't be mean to a stranger just to be mean.  Why are you guys doing that?
    Eh don't worry their hitting me too... the post "don't judge me" yeah that was about one of my post, just brush it off.

    Thanks.  What is wrong with these people?  I'm just asking for advice.  And I am so sad about the situation, and nobody seems to care.   

    I'm laughing a bit, you do know i was the first one to comment on your post right?

    Yeah but I thought you were different.  Guess not.  Maybe I shouldn't even post here.  You guys are all very mean. 

    (i'm not a regular poster here) i was just saying because that is why everybody is being so mean to you. Yes you came here for advise but its was like something out of a high school drama. The moment your man is gone and you don't get a letter/phone call every day you freak out and think it has to be cheating, instead of logicly thinking "maybe he is busy" and talking it over with him. (not trying to sound mean)

    How can I talk it over with him if I can't even talk to him?!  We are so distant because of the military!   

    Be patient and wait untill you can. Yeah it tends to do that... You just have to be strong. I mean if you can't handle basic training, how are you going to be able to handle deployment?
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    I'm not sure why you guys are being so mean?  I came here for help.  That's what these boards are for.  I think you are all just bitter and don't understand what we are going thru.  Please stop making fun of me and offer some constructive criticism!  I wouldn't be mean to a stranger just to be mean.  Why are you guys doing that?
    Eh don't worry their hitting me too... the post "don't judge me" yeah that was about one of my post, just brush it off.

    Thanks.  What is wrong with these people?  I'm just asking for advice.  And I am so sad about the situation, and nobody seems to care.   

    I'm laughing a bit, you do know i was the first one to comment on your post right?

    Yeah but I thought you were different.  Guess not.  Maybe I shouldn't even post here.  You guys are all very mean. 

    (i'm not a regular poster here) i was just saying because that is why everybody is being so mean to you. Yes you came here for advise but its was like something out of a high school drama. The moment your man is gone and you don't get a letter/phone call every day you freak out and think it has to be cheating, instead of logicly thinking "maybe he is busy" and talking it over with him. (not trying to sound mean)

    How can I talk it over with him if I can't even talk to him?!  We are so distant because of the military!   

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    I'm not sure why you guys are being so mean?  I came here for help.  That's what these boards are for.  I think you are all just bitter and don't understand what we are going thru.  Please stop making fun of me and offer some constructive criticism!  I wouldn't be mean to a stranger just to be mean.  Why are you guys doing that?
    Eh don't worry their hitting me too... the post "don't judge me" yeah that was about one of my post, just brush it off.

    Thanks.  What is wrong with these people?  I'm just asking for advice.  And I am so sad about the situation, and nobody seems to care.   

    I'm laughing a bit, you do know i was the first one to comment on your post right?

    Yeah but I thought you were different.  Guess not.  Maybe I shouldn't even post here.  You guys are all very mean. 

    (i'm not a regular poster here) i was just saying because that is why everybody is being so mean to you. Yes you came here for advise but its was like something out of a high school drama. The moment your man is gone and you don't get a letter/phone call every day you freak out and think it has to be cheating, instead of logicly thinking "maybe he is busy" and talking it over with him. (not trying to sound mean)

      But you still can't spell.  HTH

    Yeah, its one of my flaws... if only my internet browser had spell check, then i would be awesome!

     The beauty of it is that we all manage to spell everything correctly without spell check...hence the "you can't spell" comments.

    Wel if my ocasional mispeld word meses with yu I bet if i strtd taklin like dis you guys would all have fit!

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    I'm not sure why you guys are being so mean?  I came here for help.  That's what these boards are for.  I think you are all just bitter and don't understand what we are going thru.  Please stop making fun of me and offer some constructive criticism!  I wouldn't be mean to a stranger just to be mean.  Why are you guys doing that?
    Eh don't worry their hitting me too... the post "don't judge me" yeah that was about one of my post, just brush it off.

    Thanks.  What is wrong with these people?  I'm just asking for advice.  And I am so sad about the situation, and nobody seems to care.   

    I'm laughing a bit, you do know i was the first one to comment on your post right?

    Yeah but I thought you were different.  Guess not.  Maybe I shouldn't even post here.  You guys are all very mean. 

    (i'm not a regular poster here) i was just saying because that is why everybody is being so mean to you. Yes you came here for advise but its was like something out of a high school drama. The moment your man is gone and you don't get a letter/phone call every day you freak out and think it has to be cheating, instead of logicly thinking "maybe he is busy" and talking it over with him. (not trying to sound mean)

    How can I talk it over with him if I can't even talk to him?!  We are so distant because of the military!   

    Be patient and wait untill you can. Yeah it tends to do that... You just have to be strong. I mean if you can't handle basic training, how are you going to be able to handle deployment?

     He isn't going to deploy.  He has an injury that makes him non deployable.  Once he gets out of basic training he might not even stay in the military.  So I'm not worried about that.  I'm just wondering about our wedding?  And what I should do about his letter not mentioning that he loves me?

     

     

    We put the "her" in "hero"
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    I'm not sure why you guys are being so mean?  I came here for help.  That's what these boards are for.  I think you are all just bitter and don't understand what we are going thru.  Please stop making fun of me and offer some constructive criticism!  I wouldn't be mean to a stranger just to be mean.  Why are you guys doing that?
    Eh don't worry their hitting me too... the post "don't judge me" yeah that was about one of my post, just brush it off.

    Thanks.  What is wrong with these people?  I'm just asking for advice.  And I am so sad about the situation, and nobody seems to care.   

    I'm laughing a bit, you do know i was the first one to comment on your post right?

    Yeah but I thought you were different.  Guess not.  Maybe I shouldn't even post here.  You guys are all very mean. 

    (i'm not a regular poster here) i was just saying because that is why everybody is being so mean to you. Yes you came here for advise but its was like something out of a high school drama. The moment your man is gone and you don't get a letter/phone call every day you freak out and think it has to be cheating, instead of logicly thinking "maybe he is busy" and talking it over with him. (not trying to sound mean)

    How can I talk it over with him if I can't even talk to him?!  We are so distant because of the military!   

    Be patient and wait untill you can. Yeah it tends to do that... You just have to be strong. I mean if you can't handle basic training, how are you going to be able to handle deployment?

     He isn't going to deploy.  He has an injury that makes him non deployable.  Once he gets out of basic training he might not even stay in the military.  So I'm not worried about that.  I'm just wondering about our wedding?  And what I should do about his letter not mentioning that he loves me?

     


     

    Was the letter all about missing you?
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    I'm not sure why you guys are being so mean?  I came here for help.  That's what these boards are for.  I think you are all just bitter and don't understand what we are going thru.  Please stop making fun of me and offer some constructive criticism!  I wouldn't be mean to a stranger just to be mean.  Why are you guys doing that?
    Eh don't worry their hitting me too... the post "don't judge me" yeah that was about one of my post, just brush it off.

    Thanks.  What is wrong with these people?  I'm just asking for advice.  And I am so sad about the situation, and nobody seems to care.   

    I'm laughing a bit, you do know i was the first one to comment on your post right?

    Yeah but I thought you were different.  Guess not.  Maybe I shouldn't even post here.  You guys are all very mean. 

    (i'm not a regular poster here) i was just saying because that is why everybody is being so mean to you. Yes you came here for advise but its was like something out of a high school drama. The moment your man is gone and you don't get a letter/phone call every day you freak out and think it has to be cheating, instead of logicly thinking "maybe he is busy" and talking it over with him. (not trying to sound mean)

    How can I talk it over with him if I can't even talk to him?!  We are so distant because of the military!   

    Be patient and wait untill you can. Yeah it tends to do that... You just have to be strong. I mean if you can't handle basic training, how are you going to be able to handle deployment?

     He isn't going to deploy.  He has an injury that makes him non deployable.  Once he gets out of basic training he might not even stay in the military.  So I'm not worried about that.  I'm just wondering about our wedding?  And what I should do about his letter not mentioning that he loves me?

     


     

    Was the letter all about missing you?

    I'm 20.  I don't know why that matters?

    No, the letter was not about missing me.  That's why I'm asking for advice.

    I don't know how to change what is happening to our relationship. 

    We put the "her" in "hero"
  • LOL... This is the best entertainment of the evening. Thanks ladies. I needed this. 
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    And omg people. STOP QUOTING. lol 

    OP, where do you think your H would find time to cheat in boot camp? And with who?  

    This was my thought exactly. 

    OP if you know in your heart that you love him and trust him now is no different. He is going through something that is difficult and trying and he may not want to talk about it right now or doesn't have much to say about it. Maybe writing you makes him sad that he's not there now. I have no idea all I know is just keep the eye candy as eye candy and keep sending letters to your BF. Don't worry about anything else right now.

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    And omg people. STOP QUOTING. lol 

    OP, where do you think your H would find time to cheat in boot camp? And with who?  

    This was my thought exactly. 

    OP if you know in your heart that you love him and trust him now is no different. He is going through something that is difficult and trying and he may not want to talk about it right now or doesn't have much to say about it. Maybe writing you makes him sad that he's not there now. I have no idea all I know is just keep the eye candy as eye candy and keep sending letters to your BF. Don't worry about anything else right now.

    He's at Ft. Jackson right now, I know there are girls there.  He would have plenty of time to cheat, he's there all the time!  I know I need to keep the eye candy to a minimum but I am afraid for our relationship.  I would rather have a backup plan than put all of my faith in my boyfriend.  Because he never said he loves me.  So what am I supposed to do?

    We put the "her" in "hero"
  • How the fuckingfuck does your H have an injury that would keep him from deploying, yet he is at boot camp?  Troll fail. 

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    LOL... This is the best entertainment of the evening. Thanks ladies. I needed this. 

    Me too.  Holla!

    Shot first, questions later.
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    How the fuckingfuck does your H have an injury that would keep him from deploying, yet he is at boot camp?  Troll fail. 

    He has been recycled 3 times and will be again.  Why am I a troll?  You aren't being fair to me.  Can I not post here?   

    We put the "her" in "hero"
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    How the fuckingfuck does your H have an injury that would keep him from deploying, yet he is at boot camp?  Troll fail. 

    He has been recycled 3 times and will be again.  Why am I a troll?  You aren't being fair to me.  Can I not post here?   

    No.

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    OP, where do you think your H would find time to cheat in boot camp? And with who?  

    Like I said, he's gay. 

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  • So if you decide to date the guy from Applebees instead will your new SN be "mypearlshisapron?"  Your new sig can be "putting the ho in nachos."

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    So if you decide to date the guy from Applebees instead will your new SN be "mypearlshisapron?"  Your new sig can be "putting the ho in nachos."

    LOL times 640,000,000

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  • Okay... I'll play. 

    I love how you have your wedding planned out, but he hasn't said he loves you yet. That is an important aspect if you ask me. How long have you been dating? 

    You might want to rethink that reception venue.  

     


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    And omg people. STOP QUOTING. lol 

    OP, where do you think your H would find time to cheat in boot camp? And with who?  

    This was my thought exactly. 

    OP if you know in your heart that you love him and trust him now is no different. He is going through something that is difficult and trying and he may not want to talk about it right now or doesn't have much to say about it. Maybe writing you makes him sad that he's not there now. I have no idea all I know is just keep the eye candy as eye candy and keep sending letters to your BF. Don't worry about anything else right now.

    He's at Ft. Jackson right now, I know there are girls there.  He would have plenty of time to cheat, he's there all the time!  I know I need to keep the eye candy to a minimum but I am afraid for our relationship.  I would rather have a backup plan than put all of my faith in my boyfriend.  Because he never said he loves me.  So what am I supposed to do?

    Dude.

    Are you being serious? For real. 

    He has ZERO time to cheat in boot camp. He's probably sleeping 3-4 hours a night if he's lucky. And men and women don't sleep in the same bunks. 

    And he never said he loves you... ever? Or in a letter? Because it's it's the latter, you're bring re-damn-diculous. For real. If it was ever... you're planning on marrying him?

    And he'll deploy if he doesn't get discharged. They would not have let him into the military if he had an injury that would prevent him from BEING IN THE MILITARY.

     

    He got injured during basic.  Why are you being mean?  I haven't done anything to upset you! 

    We put the "her" in "hero"
  • imageMaryboo247:
    imageKiller Cupcake:

    OP, where do you think your H would find time to cheat in boot camp? And with who?  

    Like I said, he's gay. 

    It IS allowed now, you know. :)  

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  • We all have back-up plans *eye roll*. Grow up. I can't help but think maybe your guy is thinking about how happy he will be to see you again and your sitting there dreaming about your Applebees cook. I feel sorry for him. Your age has nothing to do with it I just was curious
  • He's really stressed out. It's best for your relationship if you find a way to deal with your issues without stressing him out further. I'm trying to be supportive here. 
    Twin boys due 7/25/12
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