My husbands sister has 2 little ones under 2 now, and her and her husband are updating their will and asked if they could name H and I as guardians in the case that something happens to them. I know that it's extremely unlikely, but I was wondering if there are some questions or things that we should discuss with them first before agreeing? The 2 things that come to mind would be if they are planning to set up some kind of trust or something for the children to help pay for college etc. I would also like to know if there are certain things that are important to them, like participating in a certain religion and tradition, which they would want us to continue with the children even if our original family didn't do them. SIL and her family live in another city and we only see them 1-2 times a year so we won't know the children/traditions etc too well. I was wondering if anyone knew some good or standard things to discuss with them before agreeing? Or if usually people just say yes and hope for the best?