I am new, but needed to hear from some people that may have had this happen or just could add 2 cents. Here goes
I have one sister, something happen to mom and dad and we are all we have other then extended family, but face it, nothing like this bond. We are 10 years apart in age with me begin the oldest. Well I am about to marry for the 2nd time. No one in my family attended the 1st wedding because it was on a Monday at 11am(yeah call me weird), well after 1 1/2 it ended and I must confess it was wrong. Fast forward 7 years later
I have found a wonderful man, that not only except me, but my three kids. We do everything together, he is supportive in everything. He has even set aside time with them without me. I can go on and on. Case and point
I asked my sister to be my maid of honor and she flat out said no, I was shock, then I asked if my nephew could be my ringbearer and she said no, slaped again, so I asked why and she said I don't like him. Well in the past she never like anyone I was with, truth be told I didn't like a few of her's either, but loved her and whatever she wanted to do, I was there. It is a wonder my fiance likes her, I didn't know the first meeting him she asked for him to pay her cell bill after he took us both out. What kinda crap is that.
Anyway I have not spoken to her or called her as we talk everyday, she called Sunday, but I didn't answer. I love my sister and would be the first in line with a butter knife it my heart was needed to save her life.
Should I ask her one last time? or except the fact she is selfish?
Sorry this was so long.