I'm a newlywed (day 12) and we were both technically virgins when we married, though we had experimented using hands and mouths beforehand. Since the wedding we have had sex every day to every other day, so probably about 8 times now. Though I must admit the first time went more smoothly than I expected, there was pain upon entry and for the first couple of minutes. This pattern has continued every time since.
We typically spend awhile on foreplay and always use lots of lubrication, so I'm wondering, is this something that should get better with time and practice? I haven't been avoiding it because I know that will just make the problem worse, and I do enjoy it after the first few minutes of pain. My gynecologist has told me that I have a flexible hymen, but maybe it's just not flexible enough yet? Anybody else experience this? How long did it last? Will doing it every day help get things "in shape" faster?