I have been lurking here for a bit and I just thought I would share. My DH and I got married almost two months ago and since then we have had sex maybe three times. Before we got married it was more like at least once a week and it hurts to feel rejected. I try not to put any pressure or stress on him, I have being dealing with it, letting him come to me when he wants sex because if I have tried in the past month, he tells me no and pushes me away. We cuddle a lot and kiss, but that's it.
We have talked about this issue and he says this past month he said he is really stressed because of money and even work. He drives a truck for long distances several times a week and I can understand that it does make you feel physically drained and tired. Maybe most of the stress is because of the holidays?
My DH has been at this job since March and since then he has gained 40 pounds. I work the swing shift, so we eat kinda late most of the time. Before he got this job we had sex a few times a week, but then he was thinner.
I don't know what else to do. Any advice?