I started making the advent countdown thing for DH that Heather mentioned (and others did last year).
Then DH was a total azz to me last night and I went to bed in tears and locked the door. He left this morning without saying anything. Normally we talk through email/gchat all day, and I ignored his attempt. He did send me an email asking me a question I answered at least 5x already (as recently as Monday) which only furthered my irritation with him.
How do I motivate myself to finish this nice thing for him when I'm upset with him??? Blah.