So I have a person in my life that is very emotionally manipulative and I am getting to my breaking point. I wanted to post on here to see if I am being over sensitive to what this person is doing, or if I am completely right as to what is going on.
A perfect example: This person invites me to a luncheon, I politely decline because I am going Christmas tree shopping with H and SIL/BIL that day and we hadn't set up a specific time to go yet. I am super excited because this is H and I's first Christmas. Person responds with something to the extent of, "but it's only from 12-2". I again politely decline, to only receive a response of "It's okay that you can't go, I can find someone else to sit with".
Am I overreacting here? This isn't the first time that something like this happened and it happens at a minimum of 1-2 times a week.
If I am not overreacting, how do I handle it? Do I just let it go and ignore it, or do I say something to them?