So my SO & I live in a rather uptight apartment complex. Around us are a bunch of older couples that don't like the fact that we are living together out of wed lock so they tend to complain a lot over every single noise they hear. Well as I was taking laundry down one day the property manger stopped me and told me that we are going to get a write up for being loud. We have a noise policy that after 8pm we need too respect our neighbours and be quiet. That means all noise must stay within your own apartment. This would be easy if our walls were not paper thin.
So back to the whole write up part of this rant/question. I asked her straight out when this complaint was filed and she told me that she had just gotten it when she came in that morning. I asked her what the person said and she explained that they said we were fighting at midnight. My SO and I rarely fight and when we do it's never loud enough for people to hear it. I put my laundry in and went back up to my apartment. I explained to my SO that we were being written up for this "fight" that we don't remember having. While in the shower it dawned on me that we had sex the night before. I am not quiet while having sex and honestly I can't help it.
My SO wanted to go down and tell her that is what had happened and they must have mistaken us having sex for us fighting. I was completely against it cause of embarrassed. I don't want people knowing that I am loud in bed especially people whom don't know me. It's not like I can bury my face into a pillow I am an asthmatic and am lucky to not have a asthma attack after or during sex. Should I tell the manger that this is what happened or just let it go? and Do you have any tips and tricks to keep quiet?