So this morning i find out that my husband has been watching porn. I figure that there has to be a reason so I ask. His response is "when i get horny late at night i watch it, because i don't want to wake you up." My reaction is OK i get it I'm grumpy when i get woken up. we talk about it a little more then off to work we both go. Well i just thought i was okay with it, and now that I've had time to think about it and try to rationalize it, I'm a little sad and hurt. We have sex anywhere from 3 to 6 times a week. Which i thought was pretty good but now I'm second guessing it.
Not sure how to handle this now. When I'm horny he never wants any. But when he wants some i give in even if i don't any.
Anyone out there who could help?