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I'm a mean person lol.

My father-in-law has a porn problem and always has pictures on the computer at their house, well my husbands 8 year old sister plays on that computer so everytime I go over there I go on the computer and delete all his porn. I find it hilarious because it's not like he can ask who does it lol. But I'm just afraid that my SIL will come across it one day. I've done this literally everytime I visit since husband and I started dating 4 years ago. I think he knows it's me but can't really ask and I find it ammusing.. Husband just rolls his eyes when I do it lol.

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Re: I'm a mean person lol.

  • So your husband doesn't have a problem with his dad leaving porn on the computer where his kid sister can find it?
  • Is there a mother in the picture?

    Is anyone monitoring this little girl while she's using the computer? Is she using it just to play kid-friendly games, or is she on the Internet?

    What has your husband said about this?

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  • You're really overstepping your bounds here.

    But hey, it doesn't sound like you plan to change anytime soon, so it's rather pointless to continue this conversation.

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  • I think you should let her find it. Then his father is in deep doo doo.  lol  he doesn't have it protected or anything? what an idiot. 
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  • This whole situation is sick, not funny. First, is the porn hidden/password protected so SIL can't find it?  Secondly, where is MIL in all of this? Third, this is NONE of your damn business.  Your dh isn't even agreeing with you doing it since he rolls his eyes when you delete it.

    If SIL is in no danger of finding the porn, leave it alone.  Your own obsession with it speaks volumes about you and your issues with other people's privacy.  You're not a mean person, just a sad one.

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  • No way would I touch a mouse/kb that I know that someone else had touched while whacking off. 

     

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    No way would I touch a mouse/kb that I know that someone else had touched while whacking off. 

     

    No public library computers for you Smile 

  • I appreciate you care enough about this little girl to protect from what would def be inappropriate viewing material. BUT Why not let DH and MIL handle this?
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    image ZestofLime:

    No way would I touch a mouse/kb that I know that someone else had touched while whacking off. 

     

    No public library computers for you Smile 

    This was great! lol   If he dosent have a block code for the porn its almost neglet for the child or something like it! Its not your bussiness what he looks at but someone needs to protect the kid. If your spouse dosent care about this situation Id be questioning having kids in the future with him. Sounds immature on both your husband and his dad's part. I feel bad for the kid

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    No way would I touch a mouse/kb that I know that someone else had touched while whacking off. 

     

    No public library computers for you Smile 

    This was great! lol   If he dosent have a block code for the porn its almost neglet for the child or something like it! Its not your bussiness what he looks at but someone needs to protect the kid. If your spouse dosent care about this situation Id be questioning having kids in the future with him. Sounds immature on both your husband and his dad's part. I feel bad for the kid

    OMG, really? Neglect? How many kids have found a copy of their dad's Playboy somewhere? Lots of neglected kids out there.

    As long as it's not kiddie porn, I just can't get this worked up about some nudie pics on the computer.

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    image ZestofLime:

    No way would I touch a mouse/kb that I know that someone else had touched while whacking off. 

     

    No public library computers for you Smile 

    This was great! lol   If he dosent have a block code for the porn its almost neglet for the child or something like it! Its not your bussiness what he looks at but someone needs to protect the kid. If your spouse dosent care about this situation Id be questioning having kids in the future with him. Sounds immature on both your husband and his dad's part. I feel bad for the kid

    OMG, really? Neglect? How many kids have found a copy of their dad's Playboy somewhere? Lots of neglected kids out there.

    As long as it's not kiddie porn, I just can't get this worked up about some nudie pics on the computer.

    There is a differance in nude pictures and hard core porn, neither of which a small child should be veiwing

     

  • IMO you are handling this in a very immature way. Have you tried talking to him about it? Or his wife? Or your husband.

     

    You are really overstepping your bounds IMO by doing it the way you are. 

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    image GBCK:
    image ZestofLime:

    No way would I touch a mouse/kb that I know that someone else had touched while whacking off. 

     

    No public library computers for you Smile 

    This was great! lol   If he dosent have a block code for the porn its almost neglet for the child or something like it! Its not your bussiness what he looks at but someone needs to protect the kid. If your spouse dosent care about this situation Id be questioning having kids in the future with him. Sounds immature on both your husband and his dad's part. I feel bad for the kid

    OMG, really? Neglect? How many kids have found a copy of their dad's Playboy somewhere? Lots of neglected kids out there.

    As long as it's not kiddie porn, I just can't get this worked up about some nudie pics on the computer.

    There is a differance in nude pictures and hard core porn, neither of which a small child should be veiwing

     

    And we know the child is viewing this, how exactly? We also don't know the content of these pictures, either.

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    My father-in-law has a porn problem and always has pictures on the computer at their house, well my husbands 8 year old sister plays on that computer so everytime I go over there I go on the computer and delete all his porn. I find it hilarious because it's not like he can ask who does it lol. But I'm just afraid that my SIL will come across it one day. I've done this literally everytime I visit since husband and I started dating 4 years ago. I think he knows it's me but can't really ask and I find it ammusing.. Husband just rolls his eyes when I do it lol.

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  • You're not really being mean.........just terribly immature.

    But you go on with your badass self, I guess.

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  • Screw everyone else. I think its pretty funny. Not that your sil cn see it, but the fact you delete it and he can't see anything. Although I would say something to the mother. Because I do not think she should find a play boy or porn, and Porn is not just nude pictures.
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    IMO you are handling this in a very immature way. Have you tried talking to him about it? Or his wife? Or your husband.

     

    You are really overstepping your bounds IMO by doing it the way you are. 



    I agree and I absolutely loathe porn. How old are you?
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    image IrishBrideND:

    IMO you are handling this in a very immature way. Have you tried talking to him about it? Or his wife? Or your husband.

     

    You are really overstepping your bounds IMO by doing it the way you are. 



    I agree and I absolutely loathe porn. How old are you?

     

    I third this.

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