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Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email [email protected]

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

Update

DH's bestfriend Robert passed away.  Please pray for his family and loved ones. 

DH is having a very rough time. 

 

Jen :( 

 

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  • Oh I'm so sorry. 
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  • oh my goodness I am so sorry, keeping you all in my thoughts
  • I am so sorry, what a tragedy.
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  • My deepest sympathies!
  • I am so very sorry =(
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  • I'm so sorry Jen.  My thoughts are with your husband.
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  • Oh no, I'm so, so sorry to hear this.  I will say a prayer for you guys.
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  • How awful. I'm so sorry.
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  • I'm so sorry :-(
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  • i am so sorry.
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  • I'm so, so sorry.  This just breaks my heart.  He was so young.  Lots of thoughts and prayers said for his family and you and your DH. 
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  • I'm so sorry.  I'm thinking of you guys.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  My prayers are with you, your DH and Robert's family.
  • Any advice or what to say to DH or how to help him?  I have never gone through this with a partner before.

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  • I'm so very sorry.


  • How horrible.  T and P for him and his loved ones.
  • There aren't any words to express how sad and tragic it is to read this.  We will keep you, your DH, and his friend's family in our thoughts and prayers.  

    As far as what you can say/do for your DH, I think it's best to be there for him and try and set aside normal expectations.  That is to say, if your DH is having a bad day, and snapping at everything you do, try hard not to engage in a fight.  That's not just today, tomorrow, or even next week.  Grieving will go on in some form for the rest of his life, but will be much more concentrated over the next couple of years.  You're already making a great step at tracking down a counselor to assist with grieving.   It's going to be hard, but the best thing you can do for him is to support him through the grieving, and recognize that he will not be himself for a while.  To the best you are able, try and make allowances to compensate for any irregular behavior.  You may also want to get yourself into counseling at some point, as this will be very hard on you as well.  All my best.

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    There aren't any words to express how sad and tragic it is to read this.  We will keep you, your DH, and his friend's family in our thoughts and prayers.  

    As far as what you can say/do for your DH, I think it's best to be there for him and try and set aside normal expectations.  That is to say, if your DH is having a bad day, and snapping at everything you do, try hard not to engage in a fight.  That's not just today, tomorrow, or even next week.  Grieving will go on in some form for the rest of his life, but will be much more concentrated over the next couple of years.  You're already making a great step at tracking down a counselor to assist with grieving.   It's going to be hard, but the best thing you can do for him is to support him through the grieving, and recognize that he will not be himself for a while.  To the best you are able, try and make allowances to compensate for any irregular behavior.  You may also want to get yourself into counseling at some point, as this will be very hard on you as well.  All my best.

    Thank you, I appreciate the advice

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  • I am so sorry.  T&P for all of you.  

     

  • I'm so sorry. Prayers for all of you and Robert's family.
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  • I'm so sorry to hear this.  I pray that your DH can find peace in this difficult time.

  • I'm sorry.  His family and yours are in my prayers.
  • So sorry!! Prayers for the family and your DH to get through this.
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  • I am so sorry.  T&Ps to all of you and his family.
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  • So sorry for you, your DH and Robert's family.  T & Ps.
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