I'm a newlywed, a month on July 4th. Pretty quickly into the honeymoon my husband and I figured out that something was wrong. We were both virgins so we took our time. Sex was very painful for me. Once we got back from the honeymoon I called my doctor and I got a diagnosis of vaginismus. He assured me that we could work everything out and gave us some tips and wrote me a prescription for some numbing cream. I'm ordering some dialators today and we are working on everything the doctor suggested. If things don't begin to improve in a month I'm going to go for a full exam.
I was wondering if any of you other ladies had ever dealt with vaginismus and what you did that helped you?
Also, I don't regret waiting until I married to have sex. I'm posting this for advice so please be kind!