Issue1: My lady and I are on two different levels in the bedroom. So much, it has become frustrating because I am deprived of the things I enjoy and want during sex with her.
She appears to be satisfied and content with the sex she gives but we are now at a crossroads and ask your thoughts on how we find a happy medium. I consider myself a freak, and a "sexually progressive" partner. She, more traditional and settles for very, very little foreplay and lacks an aggressive drive, passion and just a plain jane who is just fine with vaginal penatration. Its the worst for me, but I love her. What can I do?