So...we originally planned to stop not trying after the wedding (last Sept). But, then I quit my job and started my own business, so we had to wait to save up money, etc. DH is also finishing school in July, and then hopefully will have income, but he'll be traveling a lot. I also am very overweight right now and would like to be a healthy weight (ideally) before TTGKTFU; which I am working on now...about 11 pounds down so far. I am also 31 and would like at least 2 kids. So, how long do I wait? Is it more importatnt to lose the weight or start having kid before I get too old? What should I do?