We don't usually do much for birthdays around here, but we at least acknowledge it. H is out to sea, I usually get a couple of emails a week from him when he is out. On my birthday I got two and neither mentioned my birthday. I've gotten one more since and it didn't mention it either. I'm not gonna lie, I'm upset.
I'm planning a trip to Vegas, it was supposed to be a surprise, but I forgot the Military requires you to provide addresses and phone numbers if you are going more than 300 miles away. H doesn't know about it yet. My friends think I should wait to mention that he forgot my birthday until we are shopping and use it to my advantage. It's tempting! (I do need a new ring because mine scratches the baby when I change him!)
When should I bring it up? I hate trying to email when I am upset, but waiting for a phone call might be a week or so. I feel like I am being petty because I know he has a lot going on, but at the same time, all I am asking for is a "Hey, happy birthday!" He'll be home in the next few weeks, a few days before Vegas, should I wait til he gets home?