June 2008 Weddings
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Work

Yes, its me, Starts with a D, ends with an "ehko".  Tee he he.  I wasn't trying to be sneaky with you girls, just outsiders.

Anyway, weird situation at work this week.  My supervisor and her husband quit.  I am *super* sad about this, as we had been getting along really really well since she came back from maternity leave.  I really felt like we'd fallen into a good rhythm. But, they both got better jobs, so I'm very happy for them.

I have been working under this woman for almost a year (it would be a year March 1).  I know her files and cases like the back of my hand.  I was hoping, for a few hours the day they announced their resignation, for a promotion.

Instead, they hired someone else.  I'm staying where I'm at.

The kicker: The guy they hired has worked for the firm before.  He has a history (at this very firm) of sexual harassment and otherwise despicable human behaviors.

I felt like I had been kicked in the teeth.  I have been feeling sorry for myself ever since.

On the bright side, any guilt I formerly felt about possibly looking for a new job has vanished.  I've been scouring the 'net all evening.

Re: Work

  • How horrible is that!  Why the heck would they re-hire him?  Are these incidents on file with HR?  That's really despicable.  I'm so sorry. :(  I hope you find a new job asap! 
    Married in 2008 - DD born in 2010 - EDD 6.15.2012!
  • Thanks.  And yes, I think they are on file.  I'm so confused about the whole situation.  They've already told me how to deal with any bad behavior.  *Sigh* Whatevs!!
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  • image dehko:
    Thanks.  And yes, I think they are on file.  I'm so confused about the whole situation.  They've already told me how to deal with any bad behavior.  *Sigh* Whatevs!!

    All I could say when I read this was "Why the fcuk would they rehire him after that?!"

    That's a lawsuit waiting to happen...

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  • I'm so sorry. 

    Document everything.  If he says anything inappropriate, report it immediately in writing.  And keep copies of any response.

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