My fiancee and I currently live a province away from his family and I am ok with that however after the wedding he wants to move closer, the only problem I have with this is his family doesn't exactly treat me the best.
Once a year we go out to visit and I usually grin a bear it for the week but I can't take much more of the thinly veiled comments about me ripping my fiancee away from his family. I walked out of his grandmothers kitchen and before I was even out of ear shot she was telling my fiancee that no matter what anyone says he should never doubt their love for them like I'm trying to brainwash him or something.
His mother is no better, I see how they treat my future sister in law and know that once we are married and the inevitable baby comes along things aren't going to get any better.
My fiancee is at least on my side of things for the most part he does stand up for me yet he still wants to move closer to his family knowing how things are going to be.
I really am not sure how to approach the issue I can tough through it for a week at a time once a year but I don't know how to tell my fiancee that I am not into a life of backhanded comments and criticism both to my face and behind my back.