I have had sex twice now with my new BF (only one other partner in the past) and both times I bleed all over the bed. Could this just be because I'm not very experienced? I am very tight, but we try to go very slow and gentle and make sure I'm pretty well lubed before he goes in. I've been tested for STD's so I'm pretty sure that's not the issue.
Also, I feel really bed, because the sex is amazing, but I have not had an orgasm yet. I think it hurts his feelings and feels like he doesn't turn me on or that I'm not attracted to him/his body. I have tried to reassure him that just because I didn't orgasm, it doesn't mean he's not good in bed. What can I say or do to tell/show him that it has nothing to do with his ability to please me?
TIA for any advice/tips!! You ladies always have such great advice!