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For the ladies: Oral Sex

I'm just going to come out and say it: I don't love to recieve oral sex.

Its nice and I enjoy how intimate it is, and I really love how much it turns my husband on...but that has to be my least intense orgasm (geez maybe I should have put TMI in the heading...but the title should have been a warning enough).

It has been extremely glorified in tv/movies as being a womans favorite that really the most common?

Without use of other toys or apendages... its nice and calm and sweet...but not "wow" nor my first choice. Am I in the minority on this one?

Re: For the ladies: Oral Sex

  • i think that's just something that depends on the people involved, different strokes, and all that.

    (btw, i LOVE it, and MH doesn't get much out of it, but to each their own)

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  • You're not alone. I feel the same way! Its fun for a few minutes but then I like to move on to other things... When he wants to stay down there I'm like really??? 
  • I agree too. My DH is more into it then I am. I'd rather just move on.
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  • Its all your choice whether your comfortable or not, personally I enjoy it. 
  • I agree..  it is a personal choice.  For myself..  I enjoy it and my husband enjoys it.  It's probably the best orgasm I've ever had..  very intense!  I know..  TMI!  lol
  • Yeah I agree, it only goes so far without the toys or appendages combined with the oral...but I see nothing wrong with that. I mean you wouldn't do oral on the guy without using your hands too, why would they do it on you without their fingers or whatnot...just makes sense :)

  • It is a rather delicate sensation.  I like it, but I have to be in the mood for it.  Overall I prefer regular sex.
  • I'm in the same boat as several of the other posters. Him going down really doesn't do anything for me. And this is sad considering you can say its one of his claims to fame. The guy will seriously go down for 45 minutes if I don't stop him, and hes great at it. It just doesn't do anything for me. Over time, I was eventually able to get it across to him in a nice way that, while I do appreciate his willingness to take care of me, its not somthing I really enjoy. Now, every once in a while, he will get in a mood and decide he has too, and I do get off on the little bit of forcefullness in which he makes me accept it. But again, I think thats more getting turned-on by the take control attitude, rather than what hes doing. But to your question, I think its perfectly normal to not enjoy having oral sex performed on you. Some love it, others hate it. The same could be said about bondage, porn, rough sex, etc. Good luck.
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  • all that matters is that you and your husband have a satisfying sex life.  it matters not how you obtain that satisfaction.  :)
  • I have never been much for it until DH - maybe everyone else just wasn't that great at it. I don't know.

    But with DH it is mind blowing. The most intense orgasm I can have. Makes my entire body tremble.

  • Love, love, love it.  Works every.single.time.
  • I don't like it for a couple reasons, and I told DH so (adding that if really wanted to that was his choice).  He's great with his hands, so I don't need any other stimulation!
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  • I can not climax during staight up intercourse so I definitely enjoy oral. I wish we didn't have to rely on oral every time but it works.
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  • I don't have any problems thinking it's "dirty" down there or oral is immoral. 

    It's a different kind of orgasm than when I'm riding on top's just as awesome. 

  • i personally love it.  i can have the most intense orgasm during oral.  before DH it was just ok, he definitely knows what he's doing in that department.  i can still orgasm during intercourse, but not as intense.  DH likes giving oral so it just works for us.
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  • It isn't my thing because I orgasm from intercourse easily.  So usually I just want him.
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