researching the idea of chemistry versus friendship. interesting question, as most of my friends now getting divorced say they still love their spouse, but as a friend. the chemistry is gone.
did you feel instant chemistry with your spouse? or did it develop? or was there a point in your friendship it suddenly appeared? have you lost chemistry to have it appear once again?
do you look for chemistry first or friendship? both are crucial to a relationship. but do you feel one is more important than the other? why?
all opinions appreciated.