I feel bad for my husband....he keeps trying to re-connect with one of his sisters and she keeps blowing him off. They'll make plans to meet for lunch or dinner and she bails at the last minute or the week of. (Sometimes she does have a good reason, like work or something;but she never tries to re-schedule unless my husband asks.) She always seems to have parties to watch the sports at her place and never invites us. (This is usually after she bails us when we've made plans for dinner.) She lives about an hour away so when we do make plans with her, it's usually in her town. I was irritated this past week b/c we were in town for a wedding I was standing up for; my husband made plans with his sister to meet her for dinner one of the nights (I was hanging out with the bride and doing maid of honor stuff.) He spoke with his sister a few times and the plans were a go, even the day before the plans are a go- he double checked. Then of course about 2 hours before he was supposed to meet her, she bails again. and again she hasn't contacted him to re-schedule or anything. I just feel bad for my husband,....he tries so hard to be the 'big brother' with her and wants to be there for her.