To make a very long story short, my uncle got his girlfriend pregnant 36 years ago. When his son was two, his mother married her husband and my uncle let him adopt the little boy. I'm about 4 years older than cousin and I remember him, although in small doses. What I do remember is that in the adoption agreement, the mother promised my grandmother that she would send her pictures and keep her included, and she didn't. No blame, but it didn't happen and my grandmother was heartbroken about it until she passed away. She would bump into them occasionally (very small towns and few stores) and would buy him something from the "nice lady". Anyway, my mother found his address about two years ago and wrote him an overblown letter, lets be family, I want to reuinte you with your father, would have freaked me out letter. No reply. My aunt recently found him on Facebook and I was wondering if I should send him a note.. just like a hey, just wanted you to know that you weren't forgotten and I'm here if you would like to know anything about your family, no pressure kind of thing? We're close in age and I know what it's like to not have bio dad in life and have step dad be your DAD. I can relate to him. Reach out or no?