Ok, I'm looking for some advice. I realized this morning that for the past four years, my mom has given me ugly sweaters for both Christmas and birthday presents. Usually they're non-returnable because she buys them from stores that aren't on the East Coast. It occurred to me that it's partially my fault that she keeps wasting her money, since I've never said anything. She knows I like sweaters, especially cashmere, but she has awful taste and doesn't seem to notice the styles and colors that I like, or my size.
Should I say something, or let her keep throwing money away? She never asks me what I want, so it's not like I can prevent this by giving her an alternative. I've dropped hints about gift cards in the past but it falls on deaf ears. If you think I should say something, WHAT? I don't want to be an ungrateful brat, but I would want to know if I'd been getting someone gifts they didn't like/want for years.