Seriously. Since our daughter has been born, my sex drive is MIA. There is no coaxing it out of hiding, no matter how hard my hubs or I try. Absolutely GONE! To the point where even smooching is something I have no physical desire to do. I am going absolutely nuts because I want to physically feel something, anything, for him. Mentally, I want him more than anything, but the signal isn't getting to my lady bits. Yes, I am still attracted to him, and he is crazy about me, as well as I'm happy with how I look after the pregnancy, so there's nothing obstructing me in the self-image department. I'm really not that exhausted, so I exed out that idea, no BC on my end so it's not that, I'm just out of ideas. Plus, being only 21, this shouldn't be a problem...
I'm to the point where I have no idea what to do anymore. I want it, the hubs wants it, and I force myself to at least have sex and/or do favors for the hubs at least once a week to not punish him for my issues for too long, but it's just not the same for either of us. We've tried new things to try to spark something, we've tried taking it slow with tons of fore-play, we've tried just going at it, nothing works, NO physical feeling, which even makes forcing it super difficult.
I know it's putting a strain on our marriage, and I want to fix it. We (orignially) wanted to start TTC in about 6 months, but would love to have a REAL sex life prior to another pregnancy, so unless this problem can be solved real soon, another baby will have to be put on hold also, as our marriage is obviously #1.
Any thoughts, ladies with similar problems, or suggestions? Please?