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Picture Advice

I have a question that I'm hoping that a few of you can help me out with. I really want to take some sexy pics for my DH but I'm incredibly curvy and due to complications with the pill, I've put on extra weight in my tummy area too. I've tried to take some pics but I'm lacking creativity. Does anyone have any good ideas for pics that won't make me feel self conscious or ideas on poses! 

 Thanks!!

-K 

Re: Picture Advice

  • Will DH be your photographer? Let him be the creative one! Or allow him to suggest some poses - or places you can go to see examples of the style of photos that he likes best.

     

    You can cover your midsection with a wrap, towel or a blanket, or just wear a wife-beater sleeveless shirt or blouse that will cover your midsection while exposing anything else you want exposed. You might also try turning your torso slightly away from the camera to minimize it... But whatever you do, remember that your DH already thinks you are sexy and hot and will love every picture of every curve no matter how many extra pounds you think you have...

  • what about a picture of you wearing one of his shirts?
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  • We as hubbys like for u to stay looking sexy but we r no better then that so we all change and put on the pounds.The important thing is not how u look but what u r inside and do for us. Don't put yourself down just be content in who you are because its a time u looking like that that will never repeat.
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    We as hubbys like for u to stay looking sexy but we r no better then that so we all change and put on the pounds.The important thing is not how u look but what u r inside and do for us. Don't put yourself down just be content in who you are because its a time u looking like that that will never repeat.
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  • When you say "curvy", that could be any number of body types.  But here's something I ran across just with a quick google search:

    http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/2684301/boudoir_photography_tips_posing_for.html

     Are you planning on having them professionally done, doing self-portraits, or having your husband take them?  Because a professional's job is to help you arrange yourself so that you look great, while making you feel comfortable in your own skin.  If you're doing them yourself, try putting a full-length mirror facing you behind the camera so that you can see what you look like.  If DH is doing it, he'll probably love whatever he sees :) 

  • I agree with PP just wear one of his shirts, and face the camera at like a 45 degree angle, to minimize your tummy.  But just remember we're always our own worst critic so what u might see as extra tummy weight, your DH probably doesn't even notice.
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  • Check out adipositivity.com (NSFW!) to see some sexy pics of beautiful fat women and men. Size is not a determinant of attractiveness. 
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  •   Laying on your back can "level" some areas out.
  • Thanks! I'll give some of these suggestions a shot. 
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