About a year ago I recieved an email from my sister-in-law saying the my husband and I spend too much time with my family and I'm the reason he doesn't see them as often as he should. The emails continued as well as passive agressive posts on both myspace and facebook about how I wasn't "really" apart of their family. Even though attempts have been made to resolve the situation by both my husband and I, she still has this chip on her shoulder when it comes to me. Long story short, yesterday at Thanksgiving my husband, 11 month old son and I went to my husbands mother's for dinner. As we walk in she acknowledges everyone but me. Then we were having a conversation about how my son hasn't said mama yet and how if he says another person's name before that I would be devestated (jokingly). Well she gets in my son's face and begins repeating her name over and over. (just to get under my skin) This continues throughout the entire day!! I just don't know what to do. I don't want to hurt my husband by not wanting to participate in their family gatherings, but when you are being treated like that who would????