So my husband and I are buying the family farm from his parents (our daughter is the 5th generation on the farm, so its very setimental for him). The in-laws lived with us for about 4 1/2 months when we got married because the house they were building was not quite ready for them to move into. Only they took their sweet time getting it ready. Finally they moved out the end of June, but failed to take most of their things with them.
As my husband and I were trying to get settled, we just moved a bunch of their things into their old bedroom so it would be out of the way. With it getting colder out, we want to move into that bedroom (on the main floor) so we don't have to heat the upstairs this winter and can save some money. Its gotten to the point where, even though I dress my daugher warm at night, her hands and feet are cold when she gets up in the morning (she's 3 months).
We told them this and that we want to move downstairs NOW before it gets any colder. So they came over yesterday to move their stuff out. Only they didn't get the job done! They didn't even finish one room in a day! They have a whole new house to put their stuff in, and they have yet to do it. Meanwhile I've been living in this house for 8 months now, and I still have things of mine that I've been unable to unpack because I have nowhere to put them.
I've totallly reached my limit of patience and I don't know what to do. I'm a very non-confronational person, so I can't tell them how I really feel, but I can't bring it up to my husband anymore because it makes him feel really bad that he can't fix it for me. How do I make them realize that they need to get their butts going and get out of our house! On another note, my FIL comes over quite often unannouced. He knocks when he comes, but he knocks as he is opening the door and walking in! I'm at the end of my rope!!!