My husband and I have been together for 8 years, he's been in the army national guard for 2, and we've been married about 6 months.
He just got back from a 10 wk training course in ft. jackson sc, and upon his return, is VERY distant with me, not telling me things, keeping his phone under lock and key, and deleting all of his messages anyway. He also told me since he got back that he doesnt want kids. Ever. He always wanted them before, and it's the only thing I've ever wanted in my whole life. We always talked about having a big family.
I am devasted and border-line depressed over it. What gives?!!! He won't talk about it at all.