i have a situation that i'd like some advice/opinions on... my husband and i have been married since may, and we have been together since 2001...through the end of high school, college, med school and now he is in residency. we have a really, really great relationship and i can honestly say he's my best friend!! we have very little conflicts so this is why i need some advice. so here's the deal. last night he tells me that he's going to the driving range with a (female) coworker of his while i will be working on saturday afternoon. i've met this girl a couple of times and she has a boyfriend. she's nice and i have absolutely no reason to believe than anything fishy is going on (i feel really awful even typing that!). we have never ever had trust issues, but i'd be lying if i said this situation didn't weird me out or make me uncomfortable. i'm definitely going to talk to him about it asap. i just think it's weird for a married man to go on an "outing" with another girl? it'd be a totally different story if a) she was a HE b) it was a group thing c) he'd do it another time during the weekend and invite me along. when he mentioned it to me last night, i didn't really say anything but i think he could tell that it affected me in some way. i do NOT want to be the controlling wife here, which is another reason i'm uncomfortable -- it just makes me feel bad that i'm even raising the issue.
i guess i just want to know if i'm overreacting/being crazy!?? is this a little weird?? i know his intentions are not bad in any way...in his mind, i'm sure he is just going to the driving range with a coworker who likes to golf. it just bothers me that it's a one on one thing, and i just think the "rules" are different when you are married. i have asked myself how would i feel if the situation were reversed, and i would not go on an outing by myself with another guy (single or not).
thoughts?????? thanks in advance!!! :-)