So recently I was told by a friend that I am being unreasonable. I try to keep an open mind and really explore the possibility that he might be correct but I don't think that he is in this case. Let me know if you agree or disagree with me ...
I have been best friends with two males for a very long time. The three of us have always been very very close. We have a very special connection ... something that I don't have with my girlfriends. Its kind of like a brother and sister that are best friends. We lived together for awhile too. We will call one J and the other M. So J and I have never had any bumps in our friendship. M on the other hand can be basically a very bad friend. He is either completely there or completely not. He tends to forgot about J and I whenever he gets a new gf and then when he pisses her off enough and she leaves M will come back. M also is a tad bit unstable emotionally ... I guess its fair to say he struggles with his own mental demons. Nothing to the point where he should be on meds or anything though. I have been putting up with his crap for 10 years and always forgiving and fogetting. Before that he was always a good friend.
So he never RSVP-ed to the wedding and he never showed. I know he was in town hanging out with his brand new gf. He literally lives 5 minutes from the wedding venue. That night I declared to J that I am done with M's friendship. He causes more hurt than happiness and its been that for a long time. My feelings were/are hurt. I have gone to friends wedding when I was dog ass sick and halucinating because I wanted to be there for this part of their lives. I guess this was the straw that broke the camels back. J tells me I am being unreasonable do you agree?