So, I went to drop munchkin off at my mom's house this morning and she informed me that my sister found out that her boyfriend had been cheating on her. She was right to believe that there was something else behind the reason why he was breaking up with her and saying that "She deserved much better than him". I feel so bad for her. I just can't believe that he didn't have the cajones to tell her himself. He confessed it to one of her friends. She's up in Tahoe with her friends right now, so she's going to be in bad shape when she gets back, I think. My mom might even be making that six hour (total) drive to get her and bring her home, because she doesn't want to be up there anymore.
Now for the poll:
Apparently her now ex has a history of cheating, and yes, he's only 19. My question is, do you think that cheating is, in any way, biologically inclined?
I personally think that it is, and that is why a lot of people say that people who stray in their relationships will generally be repeat offenders. I've read a few articles about studies on this, and it totally makes sense.
It sucks for this kid though... he's only 19 and he's already got himself a lovely track record. It sucks because I really like him actually. He's a good kid. He is smart, driven, and a blast to be around. He's just got some issues, obviously. But he's made it so there will never be another chance with my sister, and she's literally got a heart of gold.
Now my sister has to deal with this...her first love cheated on her. And she'll probably be forever affected by it, and that just kills me.
Now with some better news:
My mom FINALLY had her d*bag husband served with divorce papers. I can't even begin to explain how happy this makes me!!!!!!! YAY! (You all remember my stories about this, right??)
My other sister FINALLY dumped her controlling, addict boyfriend! I'm so happy about this. She didn't tell me though... my mom did. And I think it's because she doesn't want to hear me say "I told you so". Oh well. We'll talk soon I'm sure.
Either way, these two pieces of news seriously make me SO happy.
What makes you happy and sad today?