My brother's wedding was beautiful. The location was awesome, an indoor space with an outdoor terrace and arbor covered in grape vines. The ceremony was emotional, my now SIL was crying, my brother was crying. My legs and hands were shaking the whole time. But it was great, they loved what I said and everyone kept complimenting me.
The rest of the thing, (getting everyone to the ceremony and making the reception work) was kind of a mess. Somehow my mom and I ended up being the wedding consultants (the bridesmaids were not doing anything), so we had to get everyone in line and tell them what to do (It was like no one had been to a wedding before!). My brother and SIL didn't really have a plan for how anything would go.
Eventually mom and I gave up and told the bridesmaids that they had to do everything, We went outside and had a lot of beer and hung out with our family. I don't really know how to rest of the shindig went, but my brother and SIL had a great time, and that is all that matters!