I wonder if anyone has been in a similar situation and what they've done.
Recently a close friend has been going through troubles with his girlfriend. We're a very close group of friends and it has come to light that it may be due to drug use on his part. Both of them make very good money and money has never been an object but they are now two month's behind on their rent, bouncing checks, haven't paid a motorcycle pmt. in 2 years. They both lost weight and he is super skinny now (not huge to begin with) which could be accredited to drugs. To top it off, her brother was a drug dealer and kicked out of his parent's house so he lived with our friends for months and him and the brother were always together, we wonder if this is what precipitated it. Also, recently was one of our friend's bachelor party and apparantly he was asking for drugs casualy then.
I know this is all assumptions, and when I first heard they were breaking up I was shocked and the thought of drugs never crossed my mind. But the more we put it together I think it may be an option. He's an absolute great guy, but is very influencible and further sometimes curious/stupid so I don't think this is out of the question.
I guess my question is, does one of us intervene? He doesn't have any family except for his mother who is terminally ill and this would devastate her. I don't think we could go to the gf as they're a fiercly private couple (more so her) and I'm not sure she would divulge, even at the cost of him (I know that's wrong). But how do we say something to him if we're wrong? On the otherhand, I am completely ok with risking it rather than something worse happen and wish we had. Has anyone had a similar situation and how did you intervene?
Thank you so much for reading this.