I went out of my way to invite SIL to dinner when she is up. I sent her an email asking her if she would like to come up because me and Marc would like to cook her and her H dinner.
Marc gets an email saying how she will enjoy dinner cooked by Marc and spending time with him.
I guess i am just the wife, hanging out in the background. Cleaning up and finding things to do with her and her H in Montreal.
So yeah i feel a little pushed aside and a little under appreciated since i emailed her the plan for dinner and what we would be cooking for them, and i am the one that invited them.
Also whenever she talks about heading out to see them she only asks Marc to take the plane out. Not his wife.