DH lied to me about something (totally stupid according to most people, i'll admit, but something I have very strong feelings about) several times over the entire course of our relationship because he "didn't want to make me feel bad". I caught him in it, and he continued to lie right to my face. So of course we got into a huge fight that lasted several days, during which he had the nerve to say, "if this was going to be a problem, you should have thought about it before you married me." How could I if I didn't know because he lied everytime I asked? I didn't hold anything back. He knew how I felt about it all along, and if he couldn't comply, maybe he should have thought about it before he married me. He ultimately promised never to lie to me again, and I know he's being sincere, but I'm having a lot of trouble trusting him now. If he lied to me about one thing, what else did he lie about? And what else might he lie about in the future? Has anyone else been in a similar situation?