I've been lurking for a little while, and thought this would be a good place to get some advice.
My fiance and I are getting married next month, and we've never had sex (I know there are a lot of people on this board that feel very strongly that this is a stupid thing to do, but we felt it was right for us, we've done quite a bit a fooling around, so I feel like we both know what we're getting ourselves into.)
Anyway, what advice does anyone have for our first time? I know lots of lube, taking your time, etc, but what do you wish you would have known?
And last thing, I'm on Loestrin, I'm careful about taking it on time, but we don't want kids any time soon, should we use condoms anyway? How reliable has the pill been for anyone here?
Thanks a ton