My H and I have been together for 9 years now-friends first, dated for awhile, I was always slightly marriage phobic so was happoy cruising right along. No one was more surprised when he popped the question than me, but I decided hey lets do it. It was blissful-for the first 2 months or so, and then all of a sudden it was like being married to another person. Now he goes out all the time, runs around, is extra secretive, moody, distant, and really into things he never was before. Like new music, new fashion, new ANYTHING for the sake it seems, of it being new. Anyone experience this before? It feels like a midlife thing but from being married I guess, or from the shock of it maybe? I am dumbfounded.