...and both my fiance and I are virgins, I just started taking birth control pills last week...do we HAVE to use a condom the first time we do it? He doesnt want to, I dont want him to, but then again, i dont want to get pregnant just yet...what do you suggest? do most guys wear condoms their first nights? is there a possibiluty for me to get pregnant? whats the best type of condom to use if we DO use it? Please help...thanks!