Total crazy confusing moment and I failed
Police station called looking for SS's friend. They got my # through the cell phone provider. I forgot I had SS's phone on my plan and had no idea what they were talking about. They said they were looking for a runaway and I freaked because I thought they were saying SS ran away (he didn't).
She wanted to know SS's contact info so they could talk to him. I gave his name (dumb me) and then realized that it was bad. I told her that I had to call her back after I verified her info. Good, right? Bad for me because I didn't know any of her questions! She wanted to know his address -- I didn't know it. She wanted to know his mom's last name -- I didn't know it.
Police woman said "you signed for a phone and you don't know how to find him?"
SO is away -- because of course he wouldn't be home for this. I called my mom; I know it sounds silly but I was so upset that I didn't know what to do. I didn't call SO because I didn't think he had phone reception. She had the information because SO had sent her SS's school records for my mom to review. While she was sending it to me, I got a hold of SO. He called his son and figured out what was going on and then called the police station back.
I didn't want to give the police his contact information without knowing if an adult was home.
OMG. I just feel like such a non-parental loser. And SO was angry that I called my mom before him; I know it was wrong. I feel like such an @ss because I didn't have any of the right infomation; when I did find the right info, I didn't know what to do; and I called my mom instead of SO.