My XH and I have been divorced for over a year but separated for almost 4. We have a son together and we usually get along pretty well. Every now and then we have a spat and we're at each others throats.
Well, the last time we had a spat he had brought my son to soccer for pictures and no uniform. I had given him a bag with everything my son needed to wear and said as I gave him the bag "he needs to be in this at the soccer field at 530 for pictures" Well, when my son showed up not in uniform I was furious. Then he tells me I never told him he had to be in uniform and he ends up cursing me out. I told him that he didn't have the right to talk to me like that anymore and his exact words to me were "as long as I have f'ing lips on my face, I'll talk to you however the fvck I want" I just walked away because I refused to get into something with him at my sons soccer field.
So, back to present day, summer time is coming up. My son goes to my ex in laws during the summer while I work so I don't have to pay for daycare. Well, my XH and the ex inlaws do not talk. He refuses to have anything to do with them. So, in the past I have always gone out of my way to help him out to see our son. I'm tired of doing it. My thoughts are if you want to see your son, then you need to suck it up and go get him. So, I just relayed this thought to my ex and he was livid. Once again, started cursing me out and I'm sick of it.
How am I suppose to get it thru to him that he cannot talk to me like this anymore? I'm sick of it.