I need help. I have a 13 year old sister in law (she will 14 in July). I'm a little less then 10 years older. I want to build a good sister relationship with have the kind of relationship that a big sister has with a little sister. She has a cousin that she kinda close that is 5 years younger than me. But the cousin has a steady bf that is well over 3rs away who she visits often and her parents are starting to get divorced so shes gone a lot i know that bothers my SL,
We have gone out once just the two of us to see Alice in wonderland 3d. And it went really well. But it was a little awkward in some times.
I've had some MAJOR problems with her mom, to the extent of her over hearing me say it was none of her f*ing business (it wasn't any of her business)
But in about 2 years Hubby and I will be moving about 2 hrs away and i know its important to him to keep her in his life, its important to me as well and I want her to b comfortable at out home (kick off you shoes come out the shower in you bath towel comfy)
I just dont know where to really start. Our how to go about it.
Some other info that may be helpful.
she just got her first bf, loves music, loves playing instruments, and is ver active, and sociable