Family Matters
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

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How often do you see your parents or in-laws?

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Re: How often do you see your parents or in-laws?

  • We live about 4 hours from my parents, and see them once a month/every couple months. We live 30 mins away from my IL and we see them at least once a week. At first it was a few times a week, but MIL and I have issues so that was NOT working well! In your case though, his father did die, and there could be multiple factors.. It makes it harder for her to let go/It can become a crutch/ but it also can be just helping her cope with a really hard circumstance/ even help your husband cope as well .. 15 times a month does seem like a lot though.. but its really up to the two of you, both of your relations with him and each other, and you and your husband and how this interferes with your lives.
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