I have a situation. My husband is a pure "mama's boy". His father died from cancer 8 months before we got married (died in Aug 2008, married in April 2009). Which just (as expected) made the pampering and wooing of his mother become worse - she suddenly directed all of her love/affection to my husband (fiance at that time). He lived with his parents his entire life, up until the time we got married (april 2009). Right after we got married, he/we would be going to his mothers house at least 3-4 times a week! Things have "improved" since we've been married a year, but not much. I've been keeping track of how often he goes over there (just to prove that it's more than he thinks it is) and it's averaging on 10-15 times a month. So, my questions are: 1. How often do you see your parents / in-laws? 2. Do you think this is excessive or that I'm over-reacting?