I was with my ex-boyfriend for over 6 years, we were engaged at one time, then stopped the wedding because we weren't ready. We stayed together for 4 more years but I never got another proposal and we talked about it. In the end he told me he wasn't sure I was the one for him and I felt the same way so we ended our relatioship. My new guy and I have been together for about 4 months. I knew pretty much from the beginning that I wanted to marry him. He acts like he does too but I don't know if I'm reading it wrong. He brings up rings, looks at tuxs, and talks about a wedding and getting married. It seems like when I bring up anything wedding related he totally freezes up and won't talk about it. I don't bring it up a lot, something small every few days and we are around each other all the time. Am I just being too pushy? I just think that if we are going to be married we need to talk about it and think about things. He won't commit to an estimate date for proposal or wedding. He also seems to be getting irritated with me more and more lately and says he doesn't feel well all the time. Do you think he is changing his mind?